Male photographers taking photos of your gf/wife/partners how do you do it?

Meant to be a fun topic.

Most of the time she wants me to use the phone's 23mm or 12mm focal length (makes her taller apparently) and makes me question my entire photography skill/knowledge (that perhaps is inexistant?) as it usually takes so many pictures to get it right in her eyes while I do have no issue finding the right lighting and angles and shooting nice 50/85mm portraits she finds too compressed and close up... Sigh what should I do? 😊